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BEM Newsletter April 12th

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Black Executive Men
Community
BEM Community: Where Weâre At
Our community has grown to 900 official members over the last 12 months, with an excellent reception on LinkedIn, corporate America, and the Black corporate world specifically. Don Peebles knows who we are, Joe Hurd is speaking here in the fall, our posts get thousands of likes on LinkedIn monthly, and leading corporationsâeven in this climateâare reaching out for partnerships. Essentially, we are on fire and these are the very early days. You are sitting on a rocket ship.
This is the year of culture for BEM â and like any culture shift, there have been growing pains. But the direction is clear, and weâre stepping into a new level.
Weâve been tightening things up:
The dress code is evolving â we want every man to walk into the room looking like a Fortune 500 CEO.
The social photos? Theyâre already speaking volumes. Weâre moving in the right direction.
The BEM Directory now shows you exactly whoâs in your region globally â no more guessing whoâs nearby.
BEM Connects pairs you weekly with a new member, helping you build relationships without having to chase them down.
And Unc, our AI-powered member support system, is launching soon â built specifically for how we move.
The Ecosystem Weâve Built
This isnât just a group chat anymore â itâs a full executive ecosystem:
Curated town halls
Educational cohort groups
Quarterly regional socials around the world
7FB calls
Fireside chats with C-level execs most men would never access on their own
Birthday card send-outs
Holiday parties
Our own tech, designed from scratch
And a quiet focus on authentic, professional Black male friendship â the kind most men canât find anywhere else
The value here is already tremendous. And it keeps growing.
Owning Who We Are
When I started Black Executive Men, I hoped to create something every Black man could benefit from. But in reality? Early-career guys donât apply often. Blue-collar brothers donât show up. This space was built for and naturally attracts mid-level brothers and senior-level Black male executives.
While our goal remains 100,000 members, weâre no longer everything to everybody. In my therapy practice when I charged $200/session, the guys who came to me were top notch (not the top of the food chain, but close). Engineers, lawyers, VPs, managers, you name itâan excellent caliber of men. Typically early-career men couldnât afford it or didnât see the value in it. I sent these men to one another for conversations and support, and they loved it. Thatâs when the idea for this community was born.
In short - we are who we are, and itâs time to own our value and position in the market. Similar networks such as YPO, CHIEF, World 50, G100 are charging between $5,000-$60,000 for membership. And many of our guys are used to paying these fees for other masterminds, trainings, coaches, and cohorts. Itâs what most executives who are steeped in professional development expect to pay for career advanced and support.
Theyâve been pitched those prices many times by their thirties and understand the ROI that comes from it to move their career forward, and their income forward too.
So when a man lands on the BEM site, he should pause for a second. Not because he feels excluded, but because he needs to ask himself:
Am I ready for this level? Will this elevate my life, my global network, my executive presence? Am I bringing the same energy to the table?
Going forward, weâre not trying to be everything to everybody. Weâre creating a space that honors the men whoâve already put in the work â and are still climbing. Brothers who are already financially well and thriving.
The mission is in the title: Black Executive Men. Itâs time to own our identity as a community and a brand.
Although we value authentic friendship first and most, BEM Community is more than a friendship club. Guys are finding business partners, corporate mentors, financial education, and most importantly real connections with corporate brothers that would be challenging but not impossible to find elsewhere.
The Data Speaks Volumes
Make no mistake â we are not an average network by any stretch of the imagination:
The median income in our community is ~$145,000, while the median income of brothers in general is $42,000.
40% of BEM members hold an MBA or MA, compared to just 2% of Black men generally
60% of BEM men are married, versus only 30% of Black men overall
60% of our members work in corporate environments, compared to just 14% of Black men in general
The average professional development spend in our community is 300% higher than the average spend of Black men in general.
While 70% of jobs and funding come through professional networks, with DEI cuts looming, Black menâs access to strong professional networks may drop from 35% to 30% by 2028. Corporate hiring of Black men could fall from 10% to 7%.
This will make BEM not just valuable to many, but essential. We are not a bottom or mid, but mid-high tier network of Black men as it stands, and with tougher times ahead, BEM will be a lifeline for these men to not only stay afloat but to thrive. BEM is positioned to become a go-to source globally â and we are designed to be exactly that.
Whatâs Coming Next
The momentum isnât slowing. In fact, weâre accelerating:
Media training for members to amplify their executive presence
A global gathering in Dallas featuring special senior executive guests
Top-tier photos and videos to elevate our brand and membersâ visibility
Expansion to over 100 regions in the next 2 years
Tailored 7-Figure Brotherhood curriculum and 7-figure blueprint for all members to accelerate financially
Regional leadership trainings to advance local experiences and career outcomes
In BEM, connecting with men whoâve managed over $600M is easy. Finding guys whoâve set up hundreds of franchises? Easy. Meeting leaders from top law firms in America? Easy.
The Bigger Mission
Letâs be real â DEI is crashing fast, the few corporate leadership pipelines for Black men that did exist are disappearing.
Meanwhile, the media still spotlights entertainers and those involved in criminal activities as the face of Black manhood.
Weâre shifting that narrative.
Weâre putting executive Black men at the forefront with our media efforts and will expand it further through BEM Media, magazines, interviews, photo shoots, long-form articles and more.
Weâre showing the world what excellence actually looks like from a business perspective and owning our own power moving forward. Doing something future generations will be proud of us achieving. Our mission is built in.
Going forward BEM will own its true value in the market. We will assert ourselves as an organization to contend withâa premium community with a premium experience. This is something to be proud about: exclusivity, ensuring the right men who can invest in themselves and desire to do so are here. A choice every competitive man makes for himself. With whom and where does he invest his time and resources to achieve his goals in life.
All of this emphasizes one clear point: we are a premium network and will have premium prices to match the curated community and resources we provide. The pivot from kick-it session to competitive corporate community is here and we are looking for the best men to represent us - and those men are you.
Owning Our Value
With organizations like CHIEF, YPO, ELC, World 50, Hampton, and corporate coaching programs charging $5,000-$60,000 for membership, BEM Community is still on the very low end of the price scaleâbut our new pricing model will put us in the game, and more importantly, will give us the resources needed to expand this community to reach our full potential, help you reach yours, and be seen as a real player in the corporate networks game. In short, your own status as a member will elevate in the professional market.
Now positioned as a premium network - BEM Community is rolling out its last upgrade of this year:
$1,000/year for BEM Community
$5,000/year for BEM Gold
$10,000/year for BEM Elite
As a thank you to current members, you will be grandfathered in at your current price. New members going forward will receive our new pricing starting today.
For guys sending new members our wayâthank youâand donât worry too much about the pricing change. The right guys will see the value, and if not, they can circle back in the future. For now, they are welcome to join our free LinkedIn group for a light level of connection to BEM, listen to the free BEM podcast for excellent professional education, and read the free BEM newsletter for updates about related corporate activities. In that way, we keep our commitment to provide something for everyone at every price point.
The Vision Forward
As the CEO, Iâm not pushing for explosive growth this year with the âcome one, come allâ attitude I had last year. Last year, my goal then was to get butts in seats to validate the model. Fortunately our model has been validated and embraced by the market. This year, weâre tightening everything upâthe year of cultureâso in 2026 we can hit the acceleration button and have everybody and everything locked in place to explode.
Media tours, joint ventures, conference keynotes and the rest putting BEM Community on the map for the world to see. And you are at the ground floor of it all. As the year of culture, Iâm locking everything in place so when we scale, this operation is sustainable, financially robust, and received as competitive in the market so it means something valuable to employers, funders, and your colleagues.
In short, we are a premium network for the most professionally successful, competitive, and financially well-off Black men on earth. Expectations are high here and BEM Community is the entry way to join this club. Itâs time to own our power and rightful place in the market, and history.
Thank you for choosing BEM Community as we continue to elevate our brand, membership, impact, and experience.
Jewel Love
Founder & CEO
Black Executive Men
BEM Community - Q2 Regional Social

When isolation is a norm
For many corporate black men
Friendship is also good for business...
Black Executive Men Community
Q2 Regional Social, April 5th, 2025
Although...
We were appreciated
Publicly by perfect strangers
For simply being ourselves, together
The true and deepest acknowledgements
Came from the handshakes, laughs and nods
Of likeminded men with similar life experiences
As Damon Adams, BEM Washington D.C. member and Product Manager at Marriott International, puts it:
âThe regional event yesterday was amazing. It was great to share without judgement. I took something away from every brother in attendance and I canât wait for the next time we are able to get together.â
Quarterly - These socials are a gift we give ourselves as we take a break from family and professional lives, splash on the cologne, dust off the derbies, collar up, and head downtown for:
- Authentic friendships
- Meaningful connections
- And mutual support
Toss in a sizzling steak, with melted butter on top and soft crunch asparagus tips on the side.
Alongside expertly facilitated discussions focused more so on Marriage and Aspirations than Mergers and Acquisitions, and all leave well-fed.
Nourished.
Rejuvenated.
For a week ahead.

With 21 socials poppinâ in 21 regions on the same day and time, our community is well-equipped to support members wherever they are, including this quarterâs locations in:
1. Atlanta
2. Boston
3. Charlotte
4. Chicago
5. Columbus
6. Dallas
7. Houston
8. London
9. Los Angeles
10. Las Vegas
11. Manchester
12. Memphis
13. New Orleans
14. New York
15. Oakland
16. Philadelphia
17. Sacramento
18. San Antonio
19. Singapore
20. Tampa
21. Washington D.C.
As Russell Gandy, Technical Product Owner at iPipeline and BEM Philadelphia member, summed up his social experience:
"Itâs time to replace a shared history of competition to get ahead individually, with one of collaboration and uplifting to get ahead collectively."
And I agree.

So the next time you see Black Executive Men in your city, feel free to come say 'hi' â even if just for a moment. Weâre happy to oblige.
Membership is selective. But if youâre ready for whatâs next, start here.
#BEM #Corporate #Community
Fireside Chat

Fireside Guest: Christopher Roberts
Christopher is a global enterprise leader with extensive experience in driving growth, profitability, and market share in highly competitive industries.
He has a proven track record in managing large P&Ls, implementing innovative business practices, and leading strategic acquisitions to achieve bold objectives.
Known for fostering an inclusive and empowered culture, Christopher excels in aligning business models with customer needs and market opportunities.
His leadership spans strategy development, talent development, and navigating complex challenges, with a focus on restructuring, realignment, and digital portfolio activation.
Christopher holds executive education from Harvard Business School and a Master of Management in Marketing, Finance, and Management Strategy from Northwestern University's Kellogg School of Management. He also earned a BA in Economics from the University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign.
Currently, he serves as Executive Vice President of the Global Food & Beverage Division at Ecolab and is a member of the Board of Directors at PPG.

Ep 82 Praise and Improvement

In this episode, Jewel shares a powerful coaching methodology focused on Praise and Improvement.
With years of experience guiding Black men toward success in the C-suite, Jewel introduces a simple yet impactful system to elevate leadership and performance.
Through a combination of affirming strengths and identifying areas for growth, this episode reveals how to foster accountability, build confidence, and ultimately become the best in the world.
Tune in to learn how praise and improvement can transform your career and leadership style.
#BEM #Podcast
Open Capital in NYC

New York City Open Capital Social.
Unlimited Access to Capital
For Black Male GPâs
Jewel, how can that be when?
âDEI is dead.â
Market is scared.
Funding down bad.
We got .04% last year.
We figured it out.
They want great deals and we have them.
They want excellent GPs and we have them.
They want handsome returns and we have âem.
Not just one deal. They want dozens to choose from.
The Black Executive Men Capital Network
Has GPs & deals with handsome returns
Coming from our 150+ members
The ask?
Institutional LPs.
Of all backgrounds
Seeking excellent GPs.
Thatâs the Open Capital Social.
Taking place at Chelsea Walls Gallery.
Wednesday, April 30th, 2025, from 7-10pm.
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Art Gallery
â
Sirloin Brioche
â
The Optimist Wine
â
Locally Sourced Paintings
Now we need the institutional investors.
High-net-worth individuals
Family offices
And we need you to commit to securing one for us.
Getting them to agree and arrive
On April 30th.
Dig deep in your bag.
Or think passingly in your LinkedIn.
Who is a perfect fit for the Open Capital Social?
Who here is willing to commit
To ensuring one institutions LP arrives?
Jay and I are committed to bringing 5 each.
However, with your support
We can divide the labor
And bring âem in
With ease.
Who here will commit?
Take a stand for BEM Capital Network.
Take a bold stand for us reaching $1B AUM each
And say âIâll commit!â
Thatâs the energy we need.
The leadership we are seeking here.
Weâre leading the charge 100%
Now, who else is in?
Black Men's LP Summit

What if Black men
Accredited investors
Became authentic friends
What deals could be funded?
What GPs could be elevated?
What returns could be found?
We ask in advance for you to:
Prepare.
The first ever...
Black men's LP Summit.
Hosted online June 12 on Zoom.
What to Expect:
Global Market Trends
Private Deal Previews
Curated Investor Panels
Interactive Q&A Sessions
Insights from Industry Leaders
Impact Networking Opportunities
Pre-register below for early access.
A new men's network
For impact-driven
Black wealth
Is here.
#bem #capital #network
2025 Private Equity Spring Cohort
and Napa Valley Experience

Black Executive Men Capital Network
2025 Private Equity Spring Cohort
and Napa Valley Experience
AprilâJune 2025. Online Cohort
July 9thâ10th. Napa Valley Experience
Register Today!
Are you a Black male GP or private equity professional looking to expand your network and deepen connections with like-minded leaders in the field?
Black Executive Men Capital Network is proud to offer a groundbreaking initiative tailored for Black men in private equityâan exclusive cohort followed by a luxurious, unforgettable experience in Napa Valley.
Why This Cohort Is a Game-Changer
Private equity can feel isolating, particularly for Black men navigating spaces where representation is scarce. This cohort is designed to connect, uplift, and empower, bringing together the brightest minds and ambitious leaders in the industry. Over three months, youâll build authentic friendships, expand your network, and tap into opportunities to advance your career and influence.
Whatâs Included in the Cohort
⢠Facilitated 1:1 Networking: Connect with 30+ like-minded Black men in private equity, including GPs, analysts, accountants, lawyers, and more.
⢠Pre-Calls: Prepare for impactful conversations and relationships with curated group calls that build the foundation for the cohort experience.
⢠Post-Calls: Solidify connections, discuss takeaways, and plan for future collaborations.

Exclusive Napa Valley Experience
From July 9th to July 10th, weâll gather in Napa Valley for a one-of-a-kind weekday event designed to combine luxury, connection, and professional growth.

Day One: A Feast for the Senses
⢠Winery Tour: Explore a Black-owned vineyard, indulge in wine sampling, and savor a gourmet charcuterie platter.
⢠Private Dinner: Enjoy a five-star dining experience with a private chef, signature cocktails, curated wine selections, and a dedicated bartender.
⢠Cigar Lounge: Unwind with a premium cigar ceremony, curated selections, and moving speeches that inspire and energize.
⢠Unforgettable Atmosphere: Engage with representatives from the local community, connect with fellow executives, and soak in the beauty of Napa Valley.

Day Two: Deals, Partnerships, and Growth
⢠Breakfast Roundtable: Share insights, discuss deals, and explore collaborations with fellow Black male private equity professionals.
⢠Future Planning: Strategize next steps for your fund, upcoming events, and the future of the Black Executive Men Capital Network.
Investment
The entire experience, including the three-month cohort and the Napa Valley event, is available for only $1,000. This is more than an eventâitâs a pivotal moment in building your network, growing your influence, and shaping your future in private equity.
Spaces are limited, and this is an exclusive opportunity to connect with trailblazing Black men in private equity. Donât miss your chance to be part of this transformative experience.
Register below!
#BEM #PrivateEquity #NapaValley

BEM Community provides authentic friendships, meaningful connections, and career support to Black men at all stages and phases or their career journey.
A powerful network building social bonds and unlocking new jobs, new careers, new clients and more.
This community doesnât just support career success, but a real sense of âcommunityâ too.

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